17 secrets of happiness
Want to be happy? There are many ways to do this, try to use at least one of the 17 secrets of happiness.
- Forget the past
You will not be happy if you carry the burden of the past. You made a mistake? You've had a terrible experience? Whatever it was, you have to let them go. You can not change the past, so it is best to focus on the present.
- Take responsibility for your life
To be happy, you need to have the freedom, the freedom of choice. No matter how bad the situation, you can always choose exactly how you do that. And only you are responsible for this choice. I do not blame their failures on someone else.
- Create relationships
Through relationships we can obtain true happiness in life. The reason is simple: we can only through the relationship of love and be loved. Love should be your top priority.
- Be versatile
The more you know and know how, the more you're interested in themselves and others. Never stop learning something new, so many interesting things in the world. New discoveries and achievements will make you happy.
- Create yourself
Set up its own principles and act in accordance with them. The only way you'll always be true to yourself.
- Be who you have
It is not necessary to live someone else's life to justify someone's expectations. People can expect from you what you want - do not go at them on occasion, it does not make you happy.
- Determine the purpose of life
To be happy, you need a goal in life. Otherwise you will be scattered and not collected. Your goal - it's your life rod.
- Appreciate what you have
To be happy is easy if you are grateful. Unfortunately, to see what we have, a lot harder than what we already have. We are unable to perceive circumstances for granted. Look around - maybe you already have a reason to be happy?
- Think positively
Happy people are not for a moment allow dark thoughts. They all look optimistically to how bad the situation was not. Try it and you think positively.
- Be creative
Creativity gives strength and involves you in a state of positive: you just do not notice the failures around you.
- Start with what you already have
Happy people are not waiting for all my life a certain level of income or a high position in order to be happy. We can already rejoice in the fact that you have. Stupid looking for happiness around the corner, a smart - underfoot (James Oppenheim).
- I am
Happiness comes to those who are constantly growing, evolving, learning. Me, looking for something new, do not be afraid to experiment, to move away from the usual.
- Use your talents
Firstly, you should open a these talents, and secondly - to disclose. The surest way to happiness - to find the source of income, which would help to develop your talents.
- Do not focus on the little things
Often the little things - the enemies of your happiness. Remember - even the smallest crack drown the ship, as they grow and eventually become real bullet holes.
- to pacify your ambitions
Ambition - it's not bad, but they should not take precedence over common sense. Otherwise, you simply re-evaluate yourself and become a loser and a byword.
- Make others happy
This is the most effective way to be happy. On the way to one's own happiness, try to do good to others, and you will see that it is - is happiness. Happiness never comes through selfishness, only through surrender.
- to sympathize
This is the highest form of devotion. Often think about the people around you.