Comfortable life: what it is and what it eats?
, more and more people are starting to rant on the subject that they feel bad now lives. The salary is small, head full of skunk, wife constantly nags the brain and so on. The impression is that around one humiliated and insulted, who every day go to the unloved job, cute smile, "beloved" boss and hear reproaches from his wife.
If you are, then you one hundred percent you need to read this article. Perhaps your anger level to what is written with each letter will increase, but, despite this, you still remember about the point under discussion. So today we decided to slightly shake you, old man, because the drudge out of the pant's nowhere.
Salvation in dreams, or how to get back to the ground and begin to engage in their own lives?
Yes, we all love to dream. Someone cherishes in his dreams the idea of the sea, someone wants to get a cat, someone wants her boss, and so on. But if you already forty years old, and you're still dreaming, but putting off everything in the closet, you really think that all the dreams come true here just like that? Or this: "Well, what can I do? Money is not .... " You yourself have heard from the outside. In our life there are only two courses, which you can move either forward or backward. There are no other options - it's complete nonsense. Even if we think that we are on the spot, still we somewhere move. Man is free to choose what to do, what to do and where to go. All the excuses in the style of "I do not know", "I'm scared", "and if a failure?" Is basically characterized by a completely unprepared for this life people. Unfortunately, a lot of them. So, what do you do when you start to live in a world of his dreams? You know, the answer is surprisingly simple. It is enough to raise his seat and begin to implement their plans. Trite? Maybe! But to write about some life hacking, wise psychological advice, and so on does not make sense, because still no one and will never follow them. All the cards are in your same hands. Whether you like it the sea? Tear the ass, and you will not average the Crimea, and for example, has the Turkish coast. Crazy with some ladies? Well, talk to her! Nothing and will never be given a reason. Remember, free cheese is only in a mousetrap.
"I want to comfort"
First you need to understand what it means to the comfort to you? Children? A family? Tranquility? New comfortable house? When you figure it out in their desires and see the goal, then you will not spend the evening with a lovely wet girlfriend called "Baltic", and the same money postponed for something important, something that will cheer up it to you. Expand your horizons. Talk about which beer tastes better, and which team won today, did not excite women (this is the case, if you are not married, because married will be dedicated to a point below). Nothing is impossible. People will put himself framework itself is wound themselves by themselves and suffer from it.
So, you realize that all you had enough: the world of gray, like your boxers and nothing pleases. Hmm, maybe it's worth thinking about what's wrong? Let's start with the relationship. Who would not be "howls" that you need to go to a psychologist to solve their problems, talk with his wife, to make some romantic gesture, and so on and so forth. I stopped loving his woman - to drop. Meaning drag myself to such a load? This is pure selfishness in relation to themselves and, of course, to her. Did not agree, it happens. Put on a cross and think that you will offend her, very stupid. Look at it this way, because you free yourself from it, and these relations, to find a really love. Psychologists can not create a substitute for love. Not vedis.
"I am a most unhappy"
Yes, you are and have, if you think so. Let's take a look at your life. The apartment is? There is. There is a work? There is. The money is there? There is. Few? Then enough to whine and complain about the bad fate and unfair attitude to his superiors, women and so on. Anyone you do not need, if such installation walk through life. Nurture self-confidence and that you are doing. Aims to be not just a statistical average plankton, set a goal and go for it.
Never too late to change something in their lives. At whatever stage of life you're not located. To realize their dreams in life. Only their own, and not someone else. Earn as much as you'd like, and not be afraid that in this case you will have to sweat. Life - it is a roller coaster, and only you can decide - is constantly falling down and slowly but surely climb up.